Single lady wants dating

Just Lookin' Around Hi. I had previously posted an ad, but so many people didn't follow the simple requests I had in place. So, here's another shot at this.

I'm 20 and I live in Southeast Missouri. I am looking for a long term relationship with a man who is less than 25 years old. I am wanting someone who is on the same level as myself, an intelligent, volumptuous woman. I want someone who shares the same ideas (for the most part), likes and interests, and intelligence. I enjoy movies, tv shows, video and board games, the outdoors to an extent, i love watching sports, but football. I like music, art, photography, and cooking. Cooking is a big thing to me, as it is my life's passion. I love learning, traveling, and just doing whatever comes to mind.
I'm in an open relationship (polyamory) with my husband.We've been apart of this for quite some time, and we enjoy being with others, along with our partner. We are happy together, we are just looking to branch out from ourselves. If you wish to know more about that lifestyle, you may google it, or ask me questions. I'm an open book in that aspect. I'm looking for something that's more than physical, but sometimes that's how it starts out. I will consider a friends with benefits relationship, on the grounds that you come to my place or stay the night. I don't like feeling like a cheap whore who's being used for money or something. I like consistancy because it keeps me from feeling unimportant. If you're not up for the challenge, please don't waste my time with a response to this ad. I'm very straightfoward. I'm really looking for someone who's funny and smart, and someone who doesn't necessarily have to spend all their time with me. We don't have to go out on dates, unless you want to. I just like having someone around I can spend my time, and have sex when the mood strikes. I'm a passionate person who is wanting some excitement.
Here's what I'm looking for:
-Intellegence
-Humor
-An attractive face (i like to be attracted to someone I'm seeing)
-A job
-A car
-A place to stay (when I'm able to come over)
-Confidence, not cockiness
-7" or less penis
-Age 25 and under
-Live within 20-30 minutes from me maximum.