I do feel isolated. My social life consists of Hot seniors looking fucking indian dating golf once a week with a group of retired/nearly retired men. (It's tough to find men my age who can play during the week) and bowling once a week, where I'm around people of all ages. I have a neighbor (female completely platonic) that I bike with occasionally but that's about it. Some aspects of my work take me out of the house but for the majority of time, I'm working in my basement studio. So your point that I be projecting this loneliness to my wife is interesting I hadn't considered that. We're both very independent people always have been and I used to think that was one of our strengths. We weren't possessive, jealous or clingy to each other. But there should still be a safe, intimate place that both of us can go to to escape everything. That place isn't there anymore. I push for her to get a physical, if not for us, then at least for herself. I work part time so I can be at home when my gets home from school. And yes, as earlier posts state, i do a lot of the household chores. As to why I haven't brought this up more often: after the 08 weekend, we agreed to a counselor. My wife came up with the questionnaire to fill out beforehand, to start the communication process. She has yet to fill it out. Part of me doesn't want to nag her about it, which is why I haven't brought the issues up again. I admit there's some passive-aggressiveness in there somewhere, but I do feel resentment towards her for her ambivalence about the questionnaire. Maybe we should skip it and go straight to counseling. I did like your point about discussing the marriage, not her. Very good advice, thank you.
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